Stop Begging! Start Manifesting!

by Brian Wong

Do you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched
The Secret? I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart,
knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – FINALLY!

But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration?
How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like:

- “It seems to work for other people, but I just can’t get it
right.”

- “I’m frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but
sometimes I can’t. What’s the trick?”

- “Why am I having so much trouble?”

- “I think the universe is against me.”

- “I’m trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!”

Don’t worry, you’re not alone. About 97% of people also couldn’t
make the Law of Attraction work for them the first time round.
Think about it, just like anything else, you have to practice many
times before you see success. A child doesn’t learn to walk without
falling over a couple of times, right?

But in practice, everything is easier said and done. When you’re
frustrated, it’s hard to stay positive. And it’s especially harder
to stay positive when the evidence all around you is screams
negativity like the unstable economy or senseless acts of violence
such as those recently seen in Mumbai.

And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? That’s
right – you start attracting negative things in to your life.

So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without
getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law
of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse?

Well, here’s three quick tips so you will never feel frustrated or
tired of begging from the universe, because you know how to start
manifesting like a pro.

1. Allow Yourself To Receive

Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks,
“Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can
you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?” Well, if the child goes
on and on asking, the police officer can’t even give an answer,
right?

Well, it’s the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your
mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe — which
is trying to respond — can’t give you a single thing because you’re
not allowing yourself to receive!

So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by
running around person to person begging for riches, and then
wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It’s
because you’re running away too fast for them before they can even
reach for their wallets).

Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and
trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it
is you asked for) when the time is right.

2. Be Patient With Yourself

Receiving takes time.

Sadly, many people give up just a couple of steps before the finish
line because they’ve decided that if it’s not working by now, it’s
never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more
and more energy because they think that with more resources, the
results will come faster.

This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in
1 month. You also can’t bake cookies in half the time by doubling
the temperature. You’ll incinerate those cookies to ashes!

In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development
time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you
throw at it.

So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the
universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you
cannot change the natural development time.

If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into
frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of
negativity.

3. Support and Educate Yourself

Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You
also need to guidance on how to do it, and also the role models to
look up to.

Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be
all and end all” solution. Well, it’s NOT. “The Secret” is just a
small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole
answer.

Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work
when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19
times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of
your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not
an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the
treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself
with fried foods and cheesecakes).

So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be
amongst people or communities where you can support each other,
learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have
found.

While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service,
it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!

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